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Name: Amanda
Question:

The problem i have is all of my family is in Oklahoma and his family are in Missouri. So we were going to have it in oklhoma because i have more family then he dose. but we dont know if anyone will came now because they complane about traveling. We really don't know what to do we don't want to make anyone mad and not show up the wedding. I hope you can give us some helpful advice. Thank you


Dear frusterated,

This is the thing...you will never make both sides happy and you will always have a few people who will complain..My advice focus on the main people(ie moms dad siblings and close family) first...what do they say...the other family that arent willing to accomadate may have to sit this one out. At the end of the day ths will be a beautiful occcasion with tons of great memories Have you thought about picking a half way destination....

I hope this helps, Brandi